Lywood: Laura Ruth.
Suddenly at Kingston Health Science Centre, on Wednesday July 21st, 2021. Ruth Lywood (nee: Mills) in her 76th year, beloved wife of Wayne. Loving mother of Lori (Tony) Puma, Darryll (Kasia) and Todd. Cherished grandmother of Cameron, Justin and Corey. Dear sister of Marlene Hollefriend (late Dave), Kathy McCallum (late Kenny), and Diane Fitzpatrick (John). Fondly remembered by her sister by choice Sue Dortona and her brother-in-law Gord (Jane) Lywood. Sadly missed by her extended family and friends.
Ruth’s generous last act of caring and kindness through the Trillium Gift of Life Organ Donor Program, has been shared with many people in need through organ and tissue donation. In her passing she has given others the chance to live.
Cremation has taken place. Donations in memory of Ruth to the Heart and Stroke Foundation of Ontario or World Vision would be appreciated by the family. Arrangements entrusted to Rod Abrams Funeral Home, Tottenham, 905-936-3477. Condolences may be left for the family at www.RodAbramsFuneralHome.com.
Mary Doldersum says
Dear Wayne and Family.
Belated condolences on the passing of your beautiful Ruth.
She was a warm hearted, kind and loving person
I remember how welcoming she and all of you were when we moved to the 10th.
The fun Christmas house hopping get-togethers and walking up the snowy hill on the 5th when the cars couldn’t make it.
We wish you and your family all the best, Wayne.
Ralph and Mary Doldersum and Family
Anne Rolph says
Dear Wayne and family
So sorry to learn of Ruth’s passing. Our sincere condolences.
Hugh and Anne Rolph
Kim Millsop says
I am so sorry to hear of Ruth’s passing. My condolences to all of you. I remember fondly my days working with Ruth.
Kim Millsop & Steve Gillies
Linda Bullock says
Saddened to hear about Ruth’s passing. I have many fond memories of Ruth from our children’s future skating days.
Michel Bullock says
Our condolences to the family. I have many great memories of Ruth at the Tottenham Figure Skating Club. We are thinking of you during this difficult time.
Jeannette & Jim Ferrie says
Deepest sympathies to Wayne, Lori, Daryll, Todd & extended family. Ruth always had such a lovely smile & always so friendly.
The Ferrie Family.
W Lywood says
Thank you so much for your kind words about Ruth. We will certainly miss her smile as well. Wayne and family.
Emily Morton says
Our condolences to to her family from the Morton’s
L Puma says
Thank you Emily. Cameron is lucky to have such a great group of friends he can lean on during this difficult time.
De Melis says
Our thoughts are with you all. Ruth was such a kind and caring person. May she Rest In Peace. Sincere condolences.
Bruno and Dian De Melis
John Crosbie says
So sad to hear of Ruth’s passing.
My sincerest condolences to her family from the Crosbie family
W Lywood says
Thank you John. We are lucky that our family lives so close to one another that we can support each other through this difficult time.
Mary Lou Gibson says
Dear Wayne, Lori, Daryll and Todd and your families. There are no words to express how deeply sorry the Gibson family was to hear of Ruth’s passing. She was truly a wonderful, kind, thoughtful and loving person and she will be missed forever. May your memories of her be a blessing to you.
Mary Lou Gibson (Sue’s sister), Murray and family.
L Puma says
Thank you Mary Lou. The family trip as kids with you, Aunt Sue and your families in Myrtle Beach are some of my best vacation memories. I will be holding on to those ones for sure.
Leanne 'Ruth' Miners (nee Atkinson) says
So sorry to hear of Aunt Ruth’s sudden passing and my thoughts are with you Uncle Wayne, Lori, Darryll, Todd and your families. Life has a way of making time disappear, and in a blink many years have passed. But as a young child, I remember feeling just like one of the crew having lots of fun at your Tottenham property when we would visit. Aunt Ruth will remain in my memory as funny and kind, and full of love for her family and friends. My deepest condolences on your loss.
L Puma says
Thanks Leanne. I have fond memories as well when our families got together as kids. Mom would always let us know how you and Mark were doing as she spoke with your Mom throughout the years. Hopefully we’ll find a way to keep that communication going on in the years to come.
Merike Barron says
Lori, thinking of you at this very sad time. Losing your mom, but keeping her memories alive forever in your heart will keep you strong. Our deepest sympathy, Colin & Merike and family.
L Puma says
Thank you Merike. Tony and I both appreciate your comforting words. She will be missed by our family but will remain a part of us forever.
Janis Van Dyke (Colwell) says
My sincere condolences to the entire family, friends and loved ones mourning the loss of Ruth. Thinking of you.
L Puma says
Thanks Janis. She has always been a big part of our lives and will be certainly be missed. I had been looking for ways to reach out to you to reconnect. Mom managed to stay in touch with some of her close childhood friends and I think she would want me to make an effort to do the same. Hopefully we can make something work to get together and catch up.
Elaine Pittman says
So sorry to hear of Ruth’s passing. Sincere condolences to all the family.
W Lywood says
Thank you Elaine. Our whole family appreciates you having her and us in your thoughts.
Pat boland says
So sorry for you loss Wayne she was a beautiful lady inside and out
W Lywood says
Thank you so much for your kind words. It means a lot to me and my family that others thought of her the same way we do.
Carrie and Ron Atkinson says
We were so sad to hear about Ruth. It’s very hard to put into words how the loss of her presence affects those of us left behind. You can never be prepared to lose anyone in your circle of love. I hope there is some comfort in knowing how everyone she cared about was attracted to her infectious laugh and twinkling eyes, and felt her goodness, care, and love.
W Lywood says
Connection to family and friends had always been very important to Ruth. She would want us to do our best to remain in touch for the years to come. Reach out to us whenever you want to and we will do the same.
Gerry McGregor says
I was so sad to hear of Ruth’s passing. I have know Ruth and her sisters for many years as Marlene and I have been friends and always in contact since we were five. Sending my condolences and love to the whole family.
W Lywood says
Thank you Gerry. We appreciate us being in your thoughts and glad Marlene has so many great people in her life to support her as well during this difficult time.
Sharon Lance-Murphy (Elmer) says
Saddened to hear of Ruth’s passing.
Thinking of all of you.
Sharon
W Lywood says
Thank you for having us in your thoughts. Ruth will be missed by us all.
Bob & Pat Jackson says
Our sincere condolences to Ruth’s loved ones. She was a lovely person & we know she will be missed.
W Lywood says
The whole family appreciates your kind words. Ruth had so many connections through the community both personally and through her work. She will be missed by us all.
Karen Palmer (Diane’s friend) says
My sincerest and heartfelt condolences to Wayne and family. Hope that your wonderful memories of Ruth will help you get through the very difficult days ahead. Wishing you peace!
W Lywood says
Thank you for your kind thoughts Karen. We are happy that Ruth and her sisters have surrounded themselves with family and great friends they can rely on during this difficult time.
Evelyn Wadden says
So sorry to hear of Ruth’s passing she was a great lady,my deepest condolences to Wayne and family
W Lywood says
She was a great lady indeed. It is a comfort to our family to know others viewed her that way as well. Thank you.
Cam Lindsey says
Wayne and Family…. Sorry to hear of Ruth’s passing. May many happy memories comfort you at this difficult time… Condolences to all
W Lywood says
Thank you for your kind words Cam. Ruth gave us many happy memories that our family will use to get us through this difficult time.
Bill & Sandy Clark says
Dear Wayne and Family, Please accept our heartfelt condolences for the loss of your loving wife, mother and grandmother. Ruth has left you with memories that will be cherished forever. With deepest sympathy, your neighbours, Bill & Sandy Clark
W Lywood says
Thank you Bill & Sandy. We were very lucky to have raised our family surrounded by great neighbors such as yourselves.
Sannie McInnis says
I am so sorry to hear of Ruth’s passing. She was such a lovely lady and I always enjoyed interacting with her on business matters which usually grew into fun chats. My deepest condolences to Wayne and family in this great loss.
W Lywood says
Thank you for your kind words Sannie. Ruth had countless connections to the community through her work. We are so happy to know she was viewed in such a positive light by those individuals.
al Johnson says
Wayne we offer our sincere condolences -we are so shocked & saddened to find out of Ruth ‘s passing
W Lywood says
Although Ruth’s passing was sudden the memories we have of her will endure forever. Thank you for offering your condolences, it means a lot to our family.
Kim Saxton (Russell) says
My deepest condolences to the entire Lywood family. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you. She was a lovely lady with the most beautiful smile.
W Lywood says
Thank you Kim, we will miss her smile as well. Her passing was sudden but those she shared time and memories with through the years will help her live on in all of us.
Christine and Len Puma says
Ruth was like a mother to us. We love her and will miss her dearly.
Hugs and much love to the rest of the family. She will never be forgotten.
Mark Atkinson says
I am so sorry to hear of our Aunt Ruth’s passing. While not related, my parents Ron and Carol Atkinson were close with both Auntie Ruth and Uncle Wayne in my younger years. Calling Aunt & Uncle seemed natural and that’s how my memories will stay.
Visiting the Lywoods hold great memories.Lori, Daryll & Todd at the family home in Tottenham will forever be remembered and cherished.
Passing along my thoughts & prayers to the entire family, with a special moment to Uncle Wayne. I hope you’re managing as well as can be expected while I’m sure you’re missing your Ruthie like crazy right now. With love, Mark Atkinson
L Puma says
Thanks Mark, the childhood memories are fond for us all as well. I remember visits to Aunt Carrie and Uncle Ron’s. My brothers and I playing with you and Leanne in your childhood home. Mom kept in touch with your Mom over the years so we did hear about what you all were up to from time to time. I know Mom would want us to do our best to stay connected somehow moving forward. Dad is definitely missing his Ruthie but he has a good support system of family and friends both here at at their cottage to help him through this difficult time. All our best to you and your family as well.