Cave: Gerald Warren,
After a brief battle with cancer, at his home in Tottenham on Monday May 3, 2021. Gerald Cave at the age of 45 years, lovingly remembered by Jennifer Jaffray. Loving son of George and the late Joyce Cave. Dearly loved brother of George Cave (Stephen Bonnar), and the late Kimberley Ann Cave. Loving grandson of Beatrice Maitland (the late George). Sadly missed by his best friend Trigger. Forever in the hearts of Colin McGinty (Kelly, and their family), his extended family, and many friends.
Following Gerald’s wishes Cremation has taken place. A Celebration of Life will be held at the Royal Canadian Legion Branch – 329, 25 Richmond Street East Tottenham on Sunday August 28, 2022 from 1:00pm – 4:00pm. For those who wish donations in memory of Gerald to www.bulliesinneed.ca, or the charity of your choice would be appreciated by the family. Arrangements entrusted to Rod Abrams Funeral Home Tottenham. Online condolences may be left for the family at www.RodAbramsFuneralHome.com.
Service
Celebration of Life
Royal Canadian Legion - Branch 329
25 Richmond Street East Tottenham, ON L0G 1W0
Sunday August 28, 2022
1:00pm - 4:00pm
Jim & Jeannette Ferrie says
Dear George, Jen, George Jnr, Stephen, Mrs Maitland & extended family. We first met Gerald in June 1979 when the family moved next door to us. I was in the front yard & this wee red haired boy said, “Hi, my name is Gerald Cave “. Then he proceeded very proudly to tell me, “my Dad can fix anything!!!”. That was Gerald, he never changed.
We hope, wherever he is that he has a wonderful great big vegetable garden. He had so many plans re what he was going to plant. Jim & I were so lucky to connect with Gerald again when he & Jen moved in with George a few years ago. He was still the lovely friendly red haired young man we first met all these years ago.
RIP Gerald, you are missed by all the neighbours on Eastern Ave & their families. Gone far to soon.
Judy Lipsett says
Our condolences to all the familys,May you Rest In Peace Gerald,our thoughts and prayers to help you get through this difficult time.Cal and Judy Lipsett
Ailene Mabee says
So very sorry for your loss our thoughts are with you . Ailene Mabee
Faye Elmer says
My deepest sympathies on your loss. May fond memories of Gerald comfort you.
Evelyn Elmer says
George and family
I am saddened to hear of your loss, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Elaine O’Hare says
RIP Gerald. You were a great man. Good friend of my family! Love you bud! ❤️❤️❤️
Sharon (Elmer) Lance-Murphy says
This is sad news. My thoughts ate with all of you. Hugs.
Colin McGinty says
I don’t recall how old we were exactly when mine and Gerald’s friendship started, but I do recall the day. It was very near the end of the school year, just before summer break started. I was walking home from school and Gerald rode up on his bike. There was no need for introductions as we both knew who the other was. He asked me, “Hey do you want to hang out sometime?” to which I replied “ya sure” and then he rode off. Within a few days, perhaps a week or more, one afternoon there came a knock on my door and there he was .
And so it began….We spent that summer riding around on our bikes and hanging out, watching countless horror movies rented from Bon View Video, listening to music and perhaps a few other things which I do not bare mentioning (What happens in dodge, stays in dodge). His family, Joyce and George welcomed me into their home and always had a seat at the table for me.
And so it went…through the years. We progressed on, growing up together, although our paths would often diverge, sometimes for months, sometimes for years at a time. He’d pursue his life, as I did mine, but always sooner or later, somehow or another, our journeys would converge again, and it was if we would simply pick up the conversation where it had left off whether a few months or even years between.
Our friendship was that true and that honest and that easy. Gerald was a strong and loyal friend, through thick and thin, high and low. Whether moving a couch or dumping a body. I could always count on him. (joking about the body part).
So now our paths have parted once more my friend. I wish you well on your newest journey and hope you find joy and peace upon it. And, as always I look forward to the day when we meet again, so that we can sit down and raise a glass, share a song or two and pick up where we left off.
Till then brother.
Kyle Jonker, and the rest of the Altruck Service team says
To Jen and the Cave family. I would like to express my deepest condolences in the passing of our dear friend and co-worker Gerald. Gerald was a great guy to work with for the past several years. He never stopped making all the guys at the shop laugh, and everyone enjoyed the days that Gerald was here. He made even the tough days go by with some laughter. As I have said before, we have a Gerald sized hole in our hearts here at Altruck. This place will never be the same and he is already sorely missed.
Cindy Elmer says
George, so saddened to hear of the loss of your son. Gerald will surely be missed. Sending you and your family our condolences and healing prayers.
Cindy Elmer & family
Sylvia Elmer says
Dear George,
Deeply sorry to hear of the loss of your son.
My condolences, thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Gerald will be missed.
hugs,
Sylvia
Val and Dan Boucher says
Our sincere condolences to Jen and family, our thoughts are with you at this sad time.
Lindsay & Linda Aldridge says
Our heartfelt condolences on the loss of your son, Gerald. Our thoughts are with you at this very sad time.Cherish your memories. Hugs!
Rebecca Abbott says
My sincere condolences to your family and everyone that loved Gerald.
Growing up alongside Gerald at TPS I remember his magnetic energy and bright smile. He always had our class in stitches, especially when teaming up with Colin.
After school and on weekends I remember riding around on our BMX bikes and going to the park, exploring.
Of course, like many girls I had a crush on him. His leather jacket and confident charm was irresistible to any grade 6 girl.
Sending love and prayers to your family.
Meghan Luyken says
My cousin Gerald was always the funny one. He would come by the house and bring laughter and positivity with him. He was a so creative and quick he could have been a comedian. He will be missed.
Carol Fraser says
Pete and I were shocked and saddened by the news of Gerald’s passing. You don’t expect the kids that your kids played with to go first. Life can be unfair at times. He was a great son and kind and caring human being. Rest in Peace Gerald, sending hugs and love to George and Jr.
Dean "Desi" Williams says
My sincere sympathies to George and family.
My dear brother, you have been a light in my life for 25 years and I will continue to carry you with me each day. My heart hurts but I know you wouldn’t want to hear all about that. You’d want me to stay rocknroll, and that is what I shall do my brother. I love you and I will miss my friend. You sir, are rocknroll and you always will be with me ?
Barry & Nancy Barton says
George and family
Our sincere condolences on the loss of your son Gerald.
Jennifer Tracy and Jim Tracy says
Dad and I send our condolences to you George and the family. My heart is sad to hear of Gerald’s passing…he truly was one of the great ones. He will be forever missed and will always hold a special place in mine and I’m sure so many others hearts.
John and Nancy Goodwin says
Our sincere condolences to George and family at this sad time.
Faye Elmer says
My deepest sympathies. May fond memories of Gerald comfort your hearts
Cameron Kennedy says
My deepest condolences to the Cave family, may you rest in peace Big Red
Sharon Duggan & Peter Shmagola says
George, Bea, Stephen & Family
We are so saddened to hear of Gerald’s passing…a wonderful young man taken too soon. Cherish your memories and good times spent together. Rest In Peace Gerald with Mom
Peter & Sharon
Jeannie Read says
So sorry for your loss, my deepest sympathy
Bill &Sherry Hicks says
With heavy hearts George we are so sorry to hear of the loss of your son Gerald.
Greg and Nadine Parker says
Our condolences to you and your family George. Thinking of you and the courage required at this time
Sandra Wilding says
So sorry to hear of your loss. We will miss seeing his smiling face out working on the cars and will always think of him.
BULLIES IN NEED RESCUE says
The world has lost a good one. Thank you for always thinking of the bullies and for the donations in your memory. We will put them towards a new dog coming into rescue. You would have liked this big meathead. Rest Well.
Gayle Downing says
I am shocked & devastated by this news. The world has lost a wonderful young man. My thoughts are with George & George Jr.
Ivor & Ginny Cathcart says
Dear George & family,We are so very sorry for your loss. Please know that we are holding you in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
Kelly Gauley says
My deepest condolences goes out to Gerald’s family.
He was always such a bright light, funny, caring, a smile that could light up a room.
Gerald’s memories will live on through all of you.
If you had the chance to meet Gerald, consider yourself lucky, he was an amazing human.
Bonnie and Dan Walker says
Dear George, So so sorry to hear of your loss of your dear son Gerald. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Sending love Bonnie (Hutchins) and Dan Walker.
Sharon Lance-Murphy (Elmer) says
I am saddened to hear of Gerald’s passing. I’ll think of his mischievous smile and laugh. Hugs
Jacqueline Conlan and family says
To the Cave family, I offer my deepest sympathies.
?I did not know Gerald well, having met him him only a few times, through my sister Wynne and brother-in-law Sonny, and through stories shared.
I pray that your happy memories, your faith, and the love of your family and friends will comfort you during this great loss.
I would like to share the beautiful words of this poem with you and in memory of Gerald and his generosity of spirit…
A Limb Has Fallen From Our Family Tree:
A limb has fallen from our family tree.
I keep hearing a voice that says, “Grieve not for me”.
Remember the good times, the laughter, the songs.
The good life I lived while I was strong.
Continue my heritage, I’m counting on you.
Keep smiling and surely the sun will shine through.
My mind is at ease, my soul is at rest.
Remembering all, how I truly was blessed.
Continue traditions, no matter how small.
Go on with your life, don’t worry about falls.
I miss you all dearly, so keep up your chin.
Until the day comes we’re together again
Sonny and Wynne says
Our sincerest condolences to the Cave family on the loss of your beloved son and brother Gerald. Hopefully the many wonderful memories and love that you all shared as a family will help ease your pain at this difficult time.
Gerald may be gone, but he’ll never be forgotten. He will be remembered not only by his family, but also by those who knew him, and by those whose life was made better because of him.
Gerald was always a fun guy with a great sense of humour and we will miss the many hearty laughs we shared together when he visited.
You are all in our prayers and caring thoughts, and we will carry Gerald’s memory in our heart’s forevermore.
Gerald will be forever remembered a kind and thoughtful friend. In life he was always our favourite “hello” and now his loss will be our hardest “goodbye”.
We miss you already Gerald.
john Archibald says
George and family:
So sorry for your loss. Please accept our sincere condolences. Having just lost our own daughter we share your pain.
John & Anne
John & Diane Harrett says
George & family,
Our sincere condolences on your loss – our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Gerald will be truly missed.
bill zerback says
So sorry to hear of the loss of your son George. My condolences to you and your family.
Gord and Mary Read says
Mere words can not express how sorry we are on hearing the sad news of Geralds passing. We have known Gerald for all of his life and watched him grow up to be the amazing guy he was. Wish we could be with you at this time to give you a big hug. We send our love .
Cathy and Brent Webb says
George,
Brent and I are saddened to hear about your son. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Janice Galton says
Dear George
I shed a tear for the loss of Gerald, but I think on the memories I have of him with a smile. Love you G.
Hugs George
Grant & Margaret says
Gerald was an amazing personality. Best sense of humour ever. A kind and gentle man with the ability to brighten up every day and any gathering. We were very proud of Gerald and so sad he left us way too early. To be remembered with a smile always and by so many is a great accomplishment.
Amanda bousfield says
My heart breaks to know your not with us anymore. I forever hold a special in my heart for Gerald. Have fun partying with Keith up there.
Chris and Lisa McGuire says
Our deepest condolences for the passing of Gerald. May he rest in peace.
Pat boland says
So sorry George for your loss, taken too soon.
Roy LeBlanc says
Sorry for your loss
Lesley Schenko says
George and family,
Please accept my deepest condolences. I’m terribly saddened to hear this news. Gerald was an exceptional human and his kindness was far reaching. I won’t soon forget all the memories from years spent knowing him. There were many. Rest In Peace G.
Elizabeth de Savoye says
I had the priviledge of growing up with Gerald. We were often in the same class in Tottenham Public School. He was always such a gregarious character and strong of heart. I had the good fortune to become friends with him again these past few years on social media. We would always talk about music and subculture. He was a fiercely intelligent, kind and funny person. My heart is sad for his family and friend, but I know he will live on in our memories of him. He truly was larger than life.
John and Diane says
We are so sad to hear of Gerald’s passing. He was a great young lad . Rest in peace. You will be remembered and loved by many.
Ann Emmett says
So sorry to hear of the loss of your son George. My condolences to you and your family.
Irene Jaffray says
Gerald has been a loving son- in-law.
I will miss you Gerald.
Bill, Darrin and Cindy Milbury says
We are so sad to hear of Gerald’s passing. Our condolences to the family.
Greg Watson says
I will always remember your big heart and larger than life attitude.
You went too soon. May we never forget you.
Tara Nimmo says
Mr. Cave and family
I am so sad to hear about Gerald’s passing. What a wonderful young man you and Mrs Cave raised. Always so polite and humorous. He had a smile that would light up a room. There was never a doubt if Gerald was there Colin was not far away. They were in separable. My thoughts are with you xo Tara