
Kelly(McKelvey), Ruth Edith
It is with great sadness that we announce that Ruth Edith Kelly went peacefully to be with her Lord and Savior and is reunited with her husband Ken Kelly and firstborn son Dane, on Monday, September 25th, with her family by her side, in her 89th year. Ruth was born in Alliston, Ontario on May 31, 1935. She married Ken Kelly and was his devoted wife for 66 years. They welcomed 3 boys into their family, Dane 1961 (predeceased 1963), Brock (Tracey) 1963, Aaron (Ada) 1966. A cherished Gramma to Dane (Calley), McKelvey (Logan), Avery (Jeff), Cole (Carissa), Taryn (Owen), and Great “Big” Gramma to Lincoln and Aria.
Ruth was a much loved sister to Jean (Bert), Aunt to their children Kelly (Jim) and Tanya (Ian), sister in law to Olive ‘Kel’ (Jim) Edgar, Bert (Lola) Kelly, John (Betty) Kelly, Gord (Vera) Kelly, Dave (Joan) Kelly, Sam (Shirley) Kelly, Barb (Earl) Collins, Roy (Aase) Kelly, Gary (Betty) Kelly, Bill (Sheila) Kelly and many more nieces and nephews.
Ruth was a longtime resident of Beeton Ontario. Her parents were well known in the community, her Father, Doc McKelvey, who was a veterinarian, the General Manager of the House of Refuge, which later became the Beeton Manor as well as the Reeve of Beeton, and her mother Mable who was a wonderful helpmate to her husband and fully involved in the running of the Manor. Ruth was also tasked to work at the Manor along with her sister Jean at a young age. Ruth preferred working alongside her Uncle Harry, who was the handyman around the Manor and was often seen in the barn with the horses or driving the tractor.
She went on to complete her post-secondary education in Toronto to become a teacher. She said there were three choices at the time for women, a secretary a nurse or a teacher and she much preferred the latter as her vocation in life. She spent most of her teaching career at Base Borden teaching Grade 8, and most Friday nights would meet up with her sister Jean and her brother-in-law Bert Platt, both teachers, regaling the past week’s events in their respective schools. She enjoyed her profession and often would recall the days of practicing for school plays or getting her students to complete their assignments. Her career of 33 years as a teacher was very rewarding and she cherished many friendships along the way.
On July 21, 1956, Ruth married Ken Kelly. They had met at a young age and Dad knew at the age of 12 that he would marry her someday. They enjoyed a wonderful life together filled with a lot of hockey, travel and welcoming 3 cherished sons. They also had time for many wonderful lifelong friendships and their social calendar was always full of many a gathering. Ruth recalled many hockey events as she tagged along with Ken and the Oldtimer team from Beeton. She always enjoyed the social events and the shenanigans of her husband who was usually dressed up in some sort of get up to garner a laugh from their friends, life was full of laughter.
After 33 years of teaching Ruth decided to retire. She entered retirement with enthusiasm and filled her days with gatherings with friends and family. She was an avid card player, bridge being her specialty, but her grandchildren remember her as a gifted euchre player. She was a proud Gramma and always cherished the time she had with them. It was during this time Ken and Ruth decided to make Haliburton home for 16 years. She enjoyed her time on the lake, but Beeton was always home for her. They moved back in 2015 and eventually moved into Simcoe Village, the same place she lived as a girl when her parents ran the Manor. She often commented that she had come home!
She will be fondly remembered and greatly missed. As a family, we would like to extend our thanks to Talbot Manor staff for their care of Mom over the last 5 months and to the care team at St Joseph’s Hospice in London for the care and comfort they extended to Mom and her family in her final hours.
The family will receive friends at Rod Abrams Funeral Home 1666 Tottenham Rd., Tottenham 905-936-3477, on Wednesday October 4, 2023 from 11am until the time of Funeral Service in the chapel at 12pm. Reception will follow. Interment will be held in Trinity Cemetery Beeton. For those who wish donations in Ruth’s memory to Canadian Cancer Society – Childhood Cancer would be appreciated. Online condolences and memories may be left for the family at www.RodAbramsFuneralHome.com.
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Service
Visitation
Rod Abrams Funeral Home
1666 Tottenham Road, Tottenham, ON L0G1W0
11:00am - 12:00pm
Funeral Service
Rod Abrams Funeral Home
1666 Tottenham Road, Tottenham Ontario L0G1W0
12:00pm
Warren Holmes says
My condolences to Ruth’s family. May she rest in peace!
Delphine Archibald. says
My deepest sympathy to Brock, Aaron and family,Bert and Jean Plat and family. Ruth was my neighbour in Tottenham and in Simcoe Village. Always had a laugh and a chat about Beeton and friends. Rest In Peace Ruth.
Tillie Rowley says
Jean, Bert and families
My sincere condolences for loss, Ruth was a good friend we were also at Simcoe Village for the last five years, we were able to keep in touch and remember the old days in Beeton. Ruth will be miss by all who knew her
Sincerely Tillie Rowley
Gwyneth McKelvey says
My sincere condolences to Jean, Brock, Aaron and your families. I have a lot fond memories of Ruth at the McKelvey reunions. My grandmother always lovingly referred to Ruth and Jean as “the girls”. It’s nice to think of her being reunited with Ken, Dane, Uncle Doc and Aunt Mabel.
Gord and Carol Ball says
Our sincere condolences on your Mom/Grammas passing. Ruth was truly a great lady, We have many fond memories of her and Ken with the Beeton Old Stingers.
Mark and Rose Anne Dennys & Family says
We offer our sincere condolences to the family, and we are keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers. We will treasure the memories we have of Ruth.
Kim Klus says
We loved Mrs Kelly! She was always so welcoming when we’d come visit all those years in Haliburton even with young kids and a dog. She never complained. Just smiled and enjoyed the company. She was happy for a home cooked meal and watching everyone enjoy themselves. We will miss her. Our thoughts and prayers are with the extended family.
Bob & Pat Jackson says
Our sincere condolences to Ruth’s Family especially to her Sister Jean.
Wendy Vermeersch says
Bill and I have wonderful memories of Ruth and Ken. We did a fair amount of time curling together, playing cards – she was a great bridge partner, we travelled to Alaska and Mexico together always with many laughs along the way. She will be missed but I know she and Ken are back together in heaven. Love and hugs to her wonderful family
John & Anne Archibald says
Brock and Aaron, please accept our deepest condolences in the loss of your Mom. I remember many happy get-togethers with your Mom and Dad. Cherish your memories.
John & Anne Archibald
Penny Beck says
Brock and Aaron we a sorry for your loss of your mother. I had her as my teacher in grade 6 in Beeton. Have fond memories of both her and your dad as they were friends of my parents. Recently I had the time visit with her once again as she and my mother were neighbors at the Village. She will be missed.
Penny and Jim Beck
Robert Creasor and Lisa Creasor says
It is never easy to lose a loved one, especially someone so close. Lisa and I send our sincerest condolences. We hope you find comfort during this difficult time. We pray that in the midst of your sorrow you find comfort in all the joyful memories shared with your mother .We pray for the Lord to bring you comfort and strength as you grieve.
Judy Harrison says
Oh what a beautiful story! After some latter years of some trials and suffering they are now in their forever home, together once again, and at peace. You will miss them so. There will be a new void in your lives but wonderful memories will linger on forever.
Prayers for you all at this difficult time..