Gardiner; Joshua Michael.
Peacefully at his home, surrounded by his loving family, after a valiant battle with cancer, on Tuesday, March 21st, 2017. Josh Gardiner, in his 18th year, beloved husband of Bronwyn (Smethurst). Loving son of David (Sharlene Skehar), and Deanna (Garry Trbovschek). Sadly missed by his brothers Mitchell, Matthew, his step sisters Natalie, Hailey, and Grace Tasker and his step brother Cody.
The family will receive friends at the Tottenham Community Centre, 139 Queen St N, Tottenham, ON L0G 1W0 on Saturday, March 25th, 2017 from 10:00 am until time of Josh’s Celebration of Life at 1:00 pm. A time of fellowship and refreshment will follow.
In lieu of flowers, for those who wish, a cheque can be written out to K-W YMCA FOUNDATION – Camp Fund, adding “in memory of Josh Gardiner”, and sent to YMCA Camping, 3738 Hessen Strasse, St. Clements, ON N0B 2M0 or online to https://secure.e2rm.com/registrant/donate.aspx?eventid=198007&langpref=en-CA&SPID=21173282&Referrer=camp-fund, would be appreciated by the family. Arrangements entrusted to Rod Abrams Funeral Home, 1666 Tottenham Road, Tottenham, 905-936-3477. www.RodAbramsFuneralHome.com
Katie says
Every time I think about you I am overcome with sadness and disbelief that all of this has happened. At the same time, the thought of you brings me such joy. I don’t know if I will ever be able to put my finger on why you meant so much to me even though I only spent a few months working with you over the past 3 years. You were truly one of my favourite people in the world. I had a dream the other night that I had cancer and didn’t have much time and I woke up with so much relief. The feeling in my dream was a pain so indescribable and it kills me to know that that was your reality for your last few months. For a couple weeks after your passing I felt so guilty for being so upset when I only knew you for such a short time compared to your family, close friends and wife. I no longer feel that way because I have accepted that that was your effect on people; so unbelievably amazing and impactful. It was such an honour getting to know you and becoming friends with you. Thinking of you and your family. Missing you always. Love Katie.
Heidrun Rimmelspacher says
Liebe Brownyn,
sieh die kleine Lichter, die in das Dunkel deiner Trauer leuchten:
kleine Lichter des Glaubens,
kleine Lichter der Erinnerungen,
kleine Lichter der Dankbarkeit.
Ich wünsche dir, dass sie deinen Weg erhellen und deinem Herzen Trost und Zuversicht schenken.
With Love, Heidrun
(Sindelfingen/Germany)
Sandra Luksys says
Dear Deanna, Mitchell and Matthew and family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I will always remember the fun times our boys had at Mom’s & Tot’s. Sandra, Neil and Damon Luksys
Barry & Penny Moore says
Our deepest and most heartfelt condolences! Gone too soon – may he Rest In Peace!
Moraine, Tom, Dylan and Dustin says
Deana, Dave, Mitch, Matt and family,
Our hearts break for all of you. What a shining light to everyone who knew Josh! He was special so I guess his soul is needed for a higher purpose. He will be watching out for all who loved him. Thank you Josh for being such a hard working student and friendly next door neighbour. A kinder boy I never knew. I have fond memories of talking to him and teaching him. It was great being your neighbour for years Deanna, Your boys had a lot of fun growing up on Julia Dr. You are a great mother and I know Josh would have passed on in peace knowing he was so greatly loved! His dad never missed a week spending time with him on Julia. Josh will be with you always!
Carol Young says
Deanna,Dave,Mitch,Matt,and family
We are so glad to have had the pleasure of knowing Josh. He was always happy, and busy. May your memories put a smile on your face instead of a tear. You will be never forgotten. Thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Katie says
I had the pleasure of working with Josh at camp and he was always so much fun and so care free. Josh was always so alive and happy, I’m so sorry for your loss it was too soon. I wish all of you the best
Sandy Robertson says
How tragic, a beautiful life taken way to early. My thoughts and prayers are with your whole family.
Monika and Michael says
Josh’s life was tragically cut short and not lived to its fullest. Yet lived to its fullest with his impact on all of us. We enjoyed the sunshine he brought into our lives and the joy he gave to all of us. We always looked forward to his company.
Our deepest condolences to his family, to the Smethurst’s and especially to Bronwyn Much love Monika and Michael.
Caitlin, Matthew, Candy and Sean Goodman says
Our sincerest condolences. Josh positively impacted many. I will remember him as fun loving, selfless and always wearing that bright smile. You are missed by many. Our thoughts and prayers are with Bronwyn and the Gardiner family.
Patty says
Deanna my heart is breaking for you and your family! I am at a loss for words. Please know that we are all here for you. Josh is with your dad now and is watching over you all! Today will be a difficult day. May Josh Rip. Xox
Susie, Eddy and Family says
May you find the courage and strength to move forward in peace and confidence knowing that Josh and your Family are so loved. Sending you all love and light. ❤️
Ev & John says
We had the pleasure of meeting Josh when he started dating our granddaughter, Bronwyn a few years ago. We instantly fell in love with him. He was charming, fun loving, intelligent and caring – a wonderful addition to our family. We are so sad to have lost him at such a young age but we have many beautiful memories that we will cherish forever.
Our deepest condolences to Bronwyn and the Gardiner family.
Lisa and Doug says
So sorry dee. Our hearts ache for your loss. Our prayers are with you and yours my dear friend.
God is our Refuge and Strength, a very present help in times of trouble.
Psalm 46:1
Love and God Bless, Lisa, Doug and Family
Jane majik says
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. from Chris and Jane Majik. Your neighbours from Centre st in Beeton
Camper at Wabanaki says
I didn’t know Josh personally, but I saw him around camp as a counsellor. I’m so sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine the pain and sorrow you might be going through. Everytime I saw Josh around camp we was always smiling and lit up the room when he walked in. You always knew how to cheer you up and make you feel better. He made camp a better place, and will never be forgotten.
Xoxox
Camp Wabanaki Camper
Elizabeth Smith says
Deanna: I just wanted to write to let you know I am thinking of you and your family at this time of loss. It just seems wrong that a parent bury their child. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. I am here for you if you just want to talk or have a coffee. I am so sorry I can’t make it tomorrow. I will be there with a hug anytime you need it. xoxo
Shirley Rennie says
I did not know Josh, and do not know your family well, but I can only imagine how hard this must be for all of you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Robert Clough says
So sorry for your great loss. Josh must have been a very special person. May the Good Lord comfort you in the times ahead. He is close to those of a broken heart. You are in our family’s prayers.
Angela Woods says
Deanna and Family
Please know that I am thinking of you and your family please accept my deepest condolences. Today and always, may loving memories bring you peace, comfort and strength.
Hannah says
I’m so sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you. I had the opportunity to meet Josh at school, he was one of the most kind hearted people I have ever met. He was very thoughtful and had a great attitude towards life.
Melissa Slywchuk says
Bronwyn and Gardiner family,
My sincerest condolences upon hearing of Josh’s passing. Josh was an amazing young man and I am so fortunate to have had the opportunity to teach him. He had a smile on his face every single day, had a great sense of humour, and was well liked by everyone. I will never forget Josh and both he and Bronwyn will always hold a special place in my heart. I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Clorissa says
I’m so sorry for your loss we’ve lost a beautiful person i know even that he is passed he will never leave our memories or our hearts. Every life he came in contact with you made into something greater. Ik it is hard Ik we r sad but he’s never gone every step we take he takes with us. Rest in peace Josh you are not forgotten and are always missed
Alex says
Josh always made me feel like a brother, we only crossed paths when we were with our friends, but as soon as joshes eyes met mine I knew I could trust him with anything I could throw at him. He made me feel like I was living a better life, and as soon as he was gone, discussion about Josh’s outgoing personality would spark up. Anyone could spend time with josh and end up not being able to help but talk about his kind nature after. He left an everlasting impression on me and many others. He will never be forgotten
Gustavo Toledo says
I can’t imagine what you must be feeling right now, but I want you to know that I am just a phone call away if there is anything I can do to help you get through this sad time. My heartfelt condolences.
Tina Bryant says
To Deanna & Dave and family our deepest condolences. Josh was like my third son growing up through elementary school,we loved him like are own. He was so respectful and caring he always put everybody before himself. We will miss him dearly,he will always be in our hearts.RIP Josh we all loved you and will always have you in our hearts.
Daimien's mom says
Words cannot express how sad I felt when I heard the news. You were a great kid. Another beautiful light in this cruel world. I know you are with my son, shine bright and watch out for us all through this difficult time. Sincere deepest condolences to your family.
Joshua Bryant says
I am sorry to hear about Josh’s passing he was a great friend like a brother from another mother, he always had anyone’s back and he was always there for people, he always had a smile on his face wherever he went, he meant a lot to everyone around him, I’m sorry for his family’s loss. He’s in a better place now RIP josh you were a great guy and always will be to everyone around you.
Heather says
Our deepest sympathies to Josh’s family and friends, we are so sorry for your loss. Josh brought so much happiness to the world, and he took so much delight in life, which makes his loss one not just for those who knew and loved him, but for the world, who is losing a bright and positive force. We will all miss him dearly, but hold him in our hearts forever.
Sending you all much love, and please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Heather and Chris.
Dave (Woody) Jackson says
To the Gardiner family, we are so sorry for your loss. I am the director at Camp Wabanaki, and have known Josh as a camper with us as a young boy. At camp, we knew him as a playful kid, ready to embrace all the activities and adventures camp had to offer. He was an ideal camper, for sure! For his last two years with us, Josh was a staff member and his amazing positive attitude was a fantastic benefit to the camp as a whole, and he was a great role model both for our campers and for fellow staff.
Josh’s Wabanaki family is feeling this terrible loss, but will always remember Josh as the wonderful addition he was to our camp. We will miss him dearly.
Rest in Peace Josh, we all loved having you as part of our camp family
Sincerely, Dave (Woody)
Krysia and Noel (Raz) says
Deanna – Our deepest condolences to you and all of your extended families. May you find comfort in each other in the days ahead. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Sally Powell says
So very sad for you, Deanna and family.
Kaitlynn Osmond - Clark says
Rest easy, Josh… You’ll be remembered, always as a guy who always had something good to say about anyone else around you. My thoughts and condolences with your family.
Savanna, Tristan, Kaidan and Paula says
Our deepest condolences on your tragic loss. Rest in peace Joshua.
Jody Robson says
My deepest sympathies, Deanna, Dave and family. Keeping you all in my thoughts. I am so sorry for your loss.
Sonia Brown says
À Parent should never have to go through this, Loss of a child. my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time. He is now pain free now will watch over you and your family forever. RIP Josh
Bonnie & Glenn Smethurst says
So very sorry to hear this sad news. We are thinking of your families and your tragic loss. May your wonderful memories of Josh be forever comforting.
Anonymous says
I didn’t know you all too well and I didn’t know you for very long. But Josh, from what experience I’ve had with you, I know that you’re an extraordinary person. You’re one of those kinds of people that walk into a room and outshine everyone else. Like the main character in a story, you stand out like no one else does. This is because you’re outgoing, so energetic, very personable, and an all-around great kind of man. The world lost someone who’s one in a vigintillion. And even though this may be a permanent scar for those close to you, I know you’re in a much better place now. My deepest sympathies and condolences go out to the Gardiner family. Stay strong.
Dianah Warrington says
Deanna, Dave and family our sincere condolences. Rest in Peace Josh. xox
anon says
Rest in peace josh. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family.
Jade Tesoro says
Rest in paradise Josh, my deepest condolences.
Jade Tesor says
Rest in paradise Josh, my deepest condolences.
Dave Nicholls says
So sorry for your loss Dee. This is heartbreaking. Condolences to you and your family.
Brian&Terry Smethurst says
We were very sorry to hear about Josh. We are thinking of all of you at this time. Our deepest condolences.
Kelly Parmenter says
My deepest condolences to the Gardiner family. Rest in peace Josh.
Sandy Hatcher Maher says
Deanna my heart breaks for you and your entire family. My deepest condolences. Rest in peace Josh I never had the privilege to meet you but the tributes written by everyone show what an amazing young man you were taken way to soon.
LeVern Pooke says
Dear, Bronwyn, and extended family.
I had the pleasure of teaching both of you in our Social Science Department. Josh always entered the classroom with an infectious smile, a willingness to help and a tinkle in his eye. His love for you was evident in every action he did. I hope you can find some comfort in the many memories and moments you shared.
My thoughts and prayers are with you. May God bless you at this very difficult time.
Mrs. L. Pooke
Randy, Justin and Josh says
Such a sad thing to lose a son, a brother, a friend at such a young age. Our sincere condolences to the whole family. Josh will always be remembered as a boy with an easy smile who loved to laugh. He will be missed.
Michelle Mason says
My sincere and sad sad hearted condolences to all of Josh’s family and friends. I wish there was something I could say or do that would ease your pain. Josh was a wonderful friend and amazing young man. He will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Michelle Mason and Family
Michelle Mason says
My sincere and sad sad hearted condolences to all of Josh’s family and friends. I wish there was something I could say or do that would ease your pain. Josh was a wonderful friend and amazing young man. He will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Carolyn Parkin says
My deepest condolences for the whole family. Josh will be greatly missed and forever in our hearts and prayers. God bless to all who are close to him.
Nellie Wygergangs says
Dave & all the familysorry to hear of your great loss, Keep the happy memories alive;
Terry Sullivan (Jamie's Dad) says
Deanna & Family, there are no words to describe what your going through, I’m so very Sorry! My Deepest Sympathy! Bless you All!
Terry
Donna Knapp says
Deanna and Family,
Please accept my heartfelt sympathy in the loss of your beloved Josh.
Mike and Cyndy Rourke says
Our deepest heartfelt thoughts and condolences are with you all at the profoundly difficult time. We truly hope that in the coming days you all are able to find the peace you so richly deserve.
Gail Davidson says
Dear; Dave, Dee, Bronwyn & Family…
My heart is aching over the loss of your wonderful son and young man.
I pray you all, find peace in his memory.
You are in my thoughts with deepest, sincere sympathy.
Bless you all.
Gail Davidson
Gillian says
I’m so sorry to hear about your loss. I worked with Josh at Camp Wabanaki and he was an amazing counsellor and person who was loved by all. My thoughts and prayers are with Josh’s family and friends.
Emma says
You’ll never be forgotten Josh you have impacted so many peoples lives. So thankful I got to meet you through my cousin Braydon. Everyone always had such amazing things to say about you including myself, I will never forget you Josh, you were such a funny kind caring man. I am so beyond sorry this had to happen:( life isn’t fair at all. May your beautiful soul rest in paradise. Thoughts and prayers for you and your family.
Lynne, Rob and Carly Delo says
There is no pain greater than the loss of a child and no words can express how deeply we all grieve with you in this terrible loss. We are thankful and have had the great pleasure of being a part of your wonderful family and will never forget what a joy Josh was to all of us. Sending you all our deepest condolences with love.
Peter Ram says
Sorry to hear about your loss. May God give the family peace and comfort at this sad time.
Paula Marengeur says
Josh spent his elementary school years at Tecumseth Beeton. I had the pleasure of watching him grow up until he graduated to high school. I will always remember his smile, his positive disposition and his love of life. We have lost too many of our graduates. My heart goes out to the family. There will be a hole in your heart, forever, because he took a piece of it with him, just as he left a piece of his heart with you.
Ted Smethurst says
So sorry to hear about your tragic loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Linda, Grant & Family says
Our deepest condolences to you Deanna and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Charmaine St. Croix says
Nothing is more painful than the loss of someone close. Nothing can remove the pain only time. I can’t express how beautiful the photo is of Josh with the butterfly.
when a spirit is born and the spirit has learned all that is needed here in this life, it departs. Part of a never ending journey. Prayers as he’s close, trust.
Vanessa Aldridge says
Deanna,
My thoughts and prayers are with you an yours.
The office family sends much love.
Rhonda Frankland says
There are no words I could possibly write to take all your heartache and grief away, Josh was a great young man and Im glad we had the pleasure of knowing him and watching him grow up in the neighbourhood. Our deepest condolences to you all, Josh will be missed horribly our thoughts and prayers are with you
Rhonda & Caylin Frankland
Jjacqueline I. Thompson (DGIG- Legal) says
My dearest Deanna my deepest condolence to you and your family. A parent should never have to bury a child. Especially one as sweet as your Josh. May God bless you and keep you through this time.
Love,
Jacqueline
Mayrienne Buxton says
Deanne, my sincerest condolences to you and your family at this terrible time. I wish I could offer you more words to ease this for you. You and your family have my best wishes.
Lorraine (Quiche) says
Deanna, Sending You and Your Family warm Thoughts and Prayers at this Difficult. May your Son Josh RIP until you meet again.
Trish Fillatre says
Our deepest sympathies to all of you at this difficult time.
Trish, Danny, Jade and Jeff Fillatre
Bekah says
Rest in peace Josh, it was great having you and Bronwyn in my classes. My condolences go to his friends and family <3
Jackie & The Burrbilly girls says
With our deepest condolences we send love and light to you and your family Deanna. Love your wind sisters
Anon says
A uniquely, especially bright light that will never fully go out, lighting the way for his brothers and family, his friends, and anyone he touched. A truly beautiful soul. His love and message will live on forever thru us all. We love you Josh.
Debby martell says
RIP Josh, you are free now.
John says
Rest In peace buddy, takin to soon but the memories and Friendships you made with others will live on
anon says
there isnt much one can say at a time like this, so Ill let the words of someone close I too lost to cancer be known so hopefully they can speak to you as they did with me;
“Don’t grieve for me, for now I’m free. I’m following the path God has laid you see. I took his hand when I heard his call. I turned my back and left it all. I could not stay another day, to laugh, to love, to work, or play. Tasks left undone must stay that way, I found the peace at the close of the day. If my parting has left a void, then fill it with remembered joys, A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss, O yes, these things I too will miss.Be not burdened with times of sorrow, My life’s been full, I savored much, Good friends, good times, a loved ones touch. Perhaps my time seemed all too brief, Don’t lengthen it now with undue grief. Lift up your hearts, and peace to thee. God wanted me now; He set me free”
much love to all, best wishes in this time of grievance
Dick & Jan McCarthy says
Deanna and Dave,
You and the boys were such an important part of our own children’s upbringing. We remember Mitch, Matt and Josh all coming home to Centre Street. Joshua is woven into the fabric of our Brennan, Katherine and James’s lives.
All of our memories of Josh will stay bright and beautiful. We send our deepest sympathy and love to both of you and all the family.
Ken, Barb, Becky and Cameron Burnley says
Deanna,Bronwyn, Mitch, Matt and family
You have our deepest sympathies, you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Ryan,Kate,Christine de Maria says
We are surrounded by memories of Josh as he and his brothers spent many summer days at our Cottage. Dave ànd Deanna, there is always a place for you and your family to visit.
Alex says
An amazing kid, with an outlook on life like no other. We lost a brothers back to watch, but we gained an angel to watch over ours. Josh you will forever be missed, rest in peace you beautiful soul.
Doug and Barb Kowalinski Eric and Michael says
Dear Deanna, Bronwyn, Mitch, Matt and family
There is no greater loss than that of losing a child. Our hearts are broken with the news of Josh’s passing. We watched Josh grow into the fine young man he became. Always a smile, always a hello and always willing to be involved with our boys be it playing road hockey or just kidding around about the Canadians. Josh has made such an impact in his 18 years with us, we are better for having him in our lives. Please accept our sincerest condolences and know we are here in any way as you struggle for a life without a great son, brother, husband and friend. RIP XOXOXOXO
Uncle Bill & Carolyn says
Deep in our hearts a memory is kept of one we loved and shall never forget. Earth has one gentle soul less.
Shirley Ross says
RIP Sweet Angel Josh, gone but never forgotten. My sincere thoughts
and prayers to all at this very sad difficult time. Much love and God Bless